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Shake it off!


A co worker picks on you at work, a friend betrays you, a group of people lie about you. OUCH, that has got to hurt and it does, it hurts brutally. I have been there, everyone has been hurt in some way or another, but here is the thing, when other people wrong you. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU AND EVERYTHING TO DO WITH THEM. It is not your fault and in fact it says everything about that person, then anything else. You keep being you and keep doing the things you dream of, no matter how others may perceive you or treat you. That is not your worry or priority in life. There will always be people who do not like you, but that is not important, what is important is God likes you and he loves you and you go ahead and like yourself too! Allow yourself to feel the pain, but then shake it off and keep trucking on, your rewards will be greater then you think. If someone points out all of your issues, this means there is something within themselves that doesn't like them self. If you have haters, you are doing something right! Flip the script and instead of seeing the hate as a problem, see it as motivation!

Misery loves company, so surround yourself with pleasant people, people who uplift you, encourage you and affirm, not those who tear you down, criticize and discourage you from your dreams! You are the five people, you are with most and if you cant find those people, cling to God and pray for them. I would way rather be alone and content then with those who are unhealthy to be with. Bad things will happen in life, people will not always treat you well, but God will. God keeps his promises and does not leave or forsake his children. Keep your head up, stay strong and step on top of disappointment. Keep in mind that a young child becomes what they see, a lot of the time kids will grow up and turn into their parents, unintentionally, even if they do not want too, but many successful people come from broken homes, so who says it is impossible to be different, then your up bringing! You set the tone for your life, nobody else can and nobody else will! Miserable people blame and will always blame their problems on other people, but the only person that can affect how you live your life and treat others, is you!

Continue to grow and to trust that there is a force with you, along side you and all around you! Nobody can steal away something that you are destined to live out! Every single failure, mistake and accusation, God knows and God sees, so keep on laughing, keep on going and never give up your dreams, no matter how hard it may seem. Anything is possible, work for it, pray for it and speak into it!

Shake off the bad stuff and welcome in the good, never allow false accusations and lies to destroy the very thing you were created to be!

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